Focused help is a tremendous gift that brings peace and calm. There’s nothing I’ve accomplished since the beginning of my career that I’ve done alone—help has always been a constant.
While team support is invaluable, today I’m specifically reflecting on the help from assistants. Whether personal or business assistants, they’re "in it" with you—whatever "it" may be. One of the most common things I hear from retired leaders isn’t that they miss the work; it’s that they miss the "help." Assistants often become an extension of you, helping to manage everything you’re doing. And even when the official work ends, you move on to new tasks and challenges, leaving a lasting appreciation for that support.
Today, I’m especially reflecting on my assistant, KG, who has been with me for almost a decade—across two industries. She has truly been my ride-or-die (if you’re unfamiliar with the term, look it up!). KG is the gatekeeper, ensuring that my calendar, my energy, and my focus are protected. The structure and processes she’s helped put in place are foundational for anyone who desires to engage with me. If I’m delivering superior work, it’s in no small part because of her dogged protection of my time and priorities.
I am deeply grateful for the focused, structured, and steadfast help I’ve received over the years. It’s a gift I never take lightly.