This is especially true in the workplace, where the stakes feel higher. Your perspective can directly influence the success of a project, or even the trajectory of the company. And yet, how often do we silence that inner voice for fear of rejection or criticism?
I’ve lived this tension. Over the years, I found myself seeking approval from peers, leaders, and colleagues, each with their own unspoken criteria. During my first year in leadership at the bank, I jumped through hoops, constantly shifting and reshaping myself to win favor. But the reality was, the target kept moving. One person’s approval rarely translated to the next.
The desire to get along, to be agreeable, and to avoid friction is understandable. Scripture even encourages us to live peacefully with others.
But Galatians 1:10 lays it out plainly: “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
This verse cuts to the heart of the matter. Our ultimate audience is God. His approval is the only one that truly matters. If our actions align with His will—if our hearts are in the right place, we have no reason to fear.
I often counsel leaders who are successful but unfulfilled, unoptimized, because they’re unsure how to please their boss or navigate the workplace. They find themselves contorting into someone else’s image, afraid to stand firm in their values. Here’s what I remind them:
Your job is not to please man. Your job is to be faithful to God.
When you stay aligned with God’s vision, He opens doors no man can close. He surrounds you with people of influence, people who recognize your value, even if your immediate manager doesn’t. But that kind of favor requires faithfulness. It takes standing firm, even when the winds of opinion shift.
This doesn’t mean we abandon humility or kindness. We are still called to live by the Golden Rule , “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Integrity, decency, and respect must shape how we operate. But at the end of the day, ourgaze must remain fixed on God, not the approval of those around us.
The truth is, no matter what you do, someone will criticize you. Some will misunderstand you. Some may even resent you.
And that’s okay.
Act boldly. Stay aligned with the vision God has given you.
God didn’t call you to be small. He called you to stand tall, to be a giant in faith, purpose, and calling. But you will never rise to that level if you’re chasing the ever-changing approval of others. Keep your eyes on Him.
I’m reminded of a line from Eminem’s “Not Afraid” that echoes this truth:
“All those who look down on me, I’m tearing down your balcony.”
It’s not about rebellion. It’s about refusing to live under someone else’s ceiling when God has called you to soar.
So, I leave you with this, Stop shrinking. Stop waiting for permission to be who God made you to be.
Speak up. Stand firm. And remember, you’re not here to win the approval of man. You’re here to walk in the favor of God.
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